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Leave me a ❤️ in the comments if you agree. This was taken from a conversation I had with @Mel Robbins where we dove deep into her brand-new “Let Them” theory. To watch the full episode, head over to my latest YouTube video or tap the link in my bio.

Have you ever experienced this? Let me know in the comments. ❤️ And if this speaks to you, then go and watch the full interview I did with @Mel Robbins. In it, she shares her latest wisdom packaged into two little words: “Let them.” Tap the link in my bio now to watch it for free!

When we feel addicted to someone, even though deep down we know they’re not right for us, it can feel like moving on is impossible. But it’s not, and this video will show you how you can move on from THAT person. Check out the full video where I share 7 crucial steps to LET GO and MOVE FORWARD. Tap the link in my bio or head over to my YouTube channel to watch now! You've got this. ❤️

Have you ever ignored this red flag in early dating? Tell me what happened in the comments. And if you want help on how to navigate your own early dating situation, I have a tool that will give you personalized advice whenever you need it. Head to AskMH.com to try it out now! (I also have a special Black Friday offer that’s only on until midnight tonight, so don’t wait!)

Are you caught in the trap of comparing your life to others?   It’s a common struggle, but the truth is, life is far less linear than we think. Whether we’re talking about careers, relationships, or personal milestones, everyone is on their own unique path.   Many people in relationships today won’t be in them a year from now, and some of the most interesting and successful people discover their true passion later in life. When we see life this way, comparing yourself to others isn’t just unproductive; it’s irrelevant. The only thing that truly matters is whether you’re doing what’s right for YOU at this stage of YOUR life.   Remember, your current choices aren’t lifelong commitments. They’re your best efforts to find happiness in the present moment.

Have you ever found yourself buying into someone else’s logic for why they can’t be with you? Tell me how you handled it in the comments. ❤️

Have you ever done this? Leave me a comment below. 👇 Thank you so much to @Jillian Turecki for joining me on the Love Life podcast; I loved our conversation. To watch the full episode, click the link in my bio and head over to my YouTube channel. ❤️

Do you agree? Tell me in the comments. 👇 A big thank you to my dear friend @lewishowes I always love speaking with you on “The School of Greatness” podcast!

If someone does something that makes you unsure of them or their intentions, instead of obsessing over whether it’s a red flag or not, use it as an “amber light.” An amber light is an invitation to the kind of honest conversation you might normally be afraid to have. And this conversation will either become a green light (keep going) or a red light (get out) depending on how someone responds. We need to have more challenging conversations in life. That’s how our love life (and every other part of our life) is going to get better.

Replying to @chi_ville_chick WHAT’S CHANGED?! (Leave me a question in the comments and I’ll answer it next!)

What can you do when you’re in a situationship and know you should end things . . . but you’re too hooked to risk letting them go? When you’re with them, it’s like all your dreams are coming true . . . but when they withdraw, you feel lost and confused. In today’s new video, I share 7 steps to finally move on and get the love you deserve. And if you need help convincing your heart as well as your head, these steps will give you the courage you need to do it. Tap above the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching!

What‘s one thing you were missing in your last relationship that made you unhappy? Tell me in the comments! 👇 Thank you, @Chris Williamson, for this amazing conversation. To watch the full video, check out Chris’ podcast, “Modern Wisdom,” on YouTube.

I don’t believe in this idea that you need to have everything figured out in order to find love, because the truth is, I don’t think anyone ever does. All you need is to be “happy enough” with where you’re at in your life right now while also working on becoming the person you want to be. Thank you @André Duqum for having me on the Know Thyself podcast. Make sure to go watch the full video on their YouTube channel!

Beware of THIS person in dating. 👆 #Dating #AttachmentStyles #Avoidant

If you’re struggling with a breakup that happened after voicing your needs, then this is for you. ❤️ To watch the full video, tap the link in my bio or head over to my YouTube channel.

Have you ever been attracted to the wrong person? Leave me a comment below. Thank you, @Jen Gottlieb, for the beautiful conversation ❤️

Has this ever happened to you? You go on a date with someone you really like, and as the date ends, fear and anxiety start to creep in: “What if they don’t text me back? What if they don’t ask to see me again?” It’s tough, and if we’re not careful, it can lead to a lot of pain. Because when we place our sense of safety and happiness in the hands of someone on the outside—someone we don’t even know well enough yet—we not only risk pushing healthy people away, but it can signal to toxic people just how much power they can gain over us by saying and doing the “right” things. #Relationships #UnhealthyRelationships #anxiousattachment

I call this “microdosing on someone”: the act of continuing to hold on to someone who gives us inconsistent or bare minimum effort . . . while pretending this doesn’t have an effect on our opportunities to meet someone new. This is one of the most dangerous mistakes we can make in dating. When we find ourselves in this position, we fail to realize how much time and opportunity we’re losing—how much we’re holding ourselves back—by staying mentally attached to someone who’s not equally invested. If this is something you can relate to, and you want to let go to find a different kind of connection, my most popular free Masterclass, “Dating With Results,” is a beautiful place to start. Go to DatingWithResults.com to sign up for FREE! ❤️

Attraction alone ISN’T enough if someone is not saying YES to a relationship with you right now. A big thank you to André (@knowthyself) for this beautiful conversation. ❤️ If you want to see more, head to my YouTube channel for the full episode—I think you’ll really enjoy it!

Head to DatingWithResults.com to get access to my full “Dating With Results” training. ❤️ (This is an excerpt taken from my most popular training, which has been seen by over a million people worldwide.)